So you enjoy playing actual games? Did you know dating websites for gamers are a thing? There are dating websites now aimed at the niche of gamer dating. Having a mutual interest isn’t exactly a new concept, but you may want to meet someone who has similar interests as you with regards to gaming, such as chatting on discord or streaming together.
Although I personally met my boyfriend via a popular dating app, one of the things we bonded over was our mutual interest in gaming. This was because we’d both mentioned gaming in our bios. From this, he added me on discord and we talked more about our interests as well as gaming. We even ended up playing some Fall Guys together! The reason I believe we clicked is because we found our mutual interest and were able to build a connection together from there.
If there is one thing in particular a global pandemic has taught us, it is the importance of human connection. Even during the UK lockdowns/highest tiers, I’ve read about people having virtual dates via Zoom or Facetime due to the fact we are unable to hang out with others in person. The pandemic does seem to also be a good ice-breaker when chatting to someone new at the moment, because it’s something we’re all mutually experiencing (although obviously in varying ways). I previously wrote a post about Virtual Dating During A Pandemic which may of interest. The bonus of the pandemic is you can take the time to find or build a stronger and deeper connection with someone, if that’s what you’re looking for.
You can ask questions and find out what type of gamer they are e.g. console (Nintendo Switch, Playstation or Xbox) or are they a PC gamer. Whether you’re looking to meet gamer girls, guys or people, there are plenty of people out there who are also looking for someone with an awesome gaming set up.
Top Tips For Finding Your Potential Player 2
- Check their profiles for any mutual interests, as these can be great conversation starters.
- Treat any virtual dates as if they are “real life” dates, so dress like you would if you were meeting them in person.
- Switch up your background/backdrop.
- You could enjoy a virtual drink together if that’s what you both enjoy, or take part in virtual wine tasting or cocktail making.
- Think of creative virtual date ideas, such as a Netflix Party.
- If food is your thing and you’d normally go on a dinner date, you could order for each other or cook a meal “together” over video call.
- If you feel you’ve found a connection with someone, suggest playing some games together which interest you both. For us it was Fall Guys, but it could be any game. Even something as simple as apps on the Google Play Store or Apple’s App Store, you could challenge them on Words With Friends.
- Lastly, don’t put pressure on yourself. Life is quite tough right now and it’s important to be kind to yourself.
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